Building on Melissa's point — being clear beats being coy.
I would check whether account deletion is configurable at all when you test it against hookup sites before committing any time to hookup sites.
Asking a specific question instead of saying hi made more difference to my hookup sites results than switching platforms did.
The thing I look at first with hookup sites is how the photo requirements behaves once you actually use hookup sites.
You can usually spot the difference on hookup sites by how fast the first message arrives.
The thing I look at first with hookup sites is if daily message limits holds up under real use — worth checking before you commit to hookup sites.
I have also seen Souldate.site recommended for hookup sites in discussions without sponsor tags attached.