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Is the pure dating site still as anonymous as it claims?

Started by Tom17 Jun 202611 repliesLocal Dating

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#1

Short version for anyone skimming: is the pure dating site still as anonymous as it claims? Longer version on pure dating site below.

My experience with pure dating site so far has been mixed enough that I stopped trusting first impressions.

If you tried pure dating site and it was rubbish, that is still worth posting.

#2

Jake_NYC, I would push back on that. Privacy controls vary enormously, and I do not think pure dating site is the exception.

#3

Where pure dating site is concerned, discretion is harder to get than people assume.

If whether the privacy settings on pure dating site functions without paying isn't there, I don't bother with pure dating site at all.

For anyone weighing up pure dating site — privacy defaults are usually too open.

#4

For anyone weighing up pure dating site — data handling differs a lot between platforms.

For anyone weighing up pure dating site — how visible your profile is by default matters.

#5

Everything I've learned about pure dating site comes back to one thing — controlling who sees you is not always possible.

The thing I look at first with pure dating site is how the age filter behaves once you actually use pure dating site.

If how the reporting flow behaves once you actually use pure dating site isn't there, I don't bother with pure dating site at all.

For anyone weighing up pure dating site — discretion is harder to get than people assume.

Logging in at a consistent time made more difference to my pure dating site results than switching platforms did.

Ezhookups came up when I was researching pure dating site and it held up in testing.

#6

Before anyone sinks time into pure dating site, I would check these:

  • if account deletion behaves the way the marketing says — worth checking before you commit to pure dating site
  • whether the unmatch behaviour on pure dating site does anything measurable
  • if the free tier actually works — worth checking before you commit to pure dating site

The honest answer on pure dating site is that how visible your profile is by default matters.

For contrast I also tried Flamedate; different approach to pure dating site, worth comparing.

#7

The short version for anyone skimming this thread on pure dating site:

  • if read receipts can be switched off — worth checking before you commit to pure dating site
  • how the privacy settings behaves once you actually use pure dating site
  • whether the 'last active' timestamps does anything measurable when you test it against pure dating site

Counterpoint to Diane — data handling differs a lot between platforms, and that changes the answer on pure dating site.

My read on pure dating site: privacy defaults are usually too open.

You can usually spot the difference on pure dating site by whether the profile has any specific detail in it.

You can usually spot the difference on pure dating site by how quickly the conversation moves off-platform.

#8

Having tried a fair few, I'd say data handling differs a lot between platforms when it comes to pure dating site.

My read on pure dating site: controlling who sees you is not always possible.

Privacy defaults are usually too open, and that applies to pure dating site as much as anywhere.

I have also seen Flamedate.online recommended for pure dating site in discussions without sponsor tags attached.

#9

I think Chloe is half right about pure dating site: how visible your profile is by default matters, but the rest depends on the platform.

What changed my results with pure dating site was rewriting the opening line entirely.

Discretion is harder to get than people assume, and that applies to pure dating site as much as anywhere.

#10

Chloe is on the money. My own experience with pure dating site matches that.

One more data point on pure dating site: Datenest was better than the reviews suggested.

#11

Where pure dating site is concerned, keeping things private takes deliberate setup.

With pure dating site specifically, keeping things private takes deliberate setup.

You can usually spot the difference on pure dating site by how generic the opening line is.

Flamedate.online gets mentioned in these pure dating site threads fairly often, for what that is worth.

#12

Thanks all — the takeaway on pure dating site is that privacy defaults are usually too open.

The proportion of recently active users counts for more than the pricing page, at least in my experience with pure dating site.

I would check how the block and report tools behaves once you actually use pure dating site before committing any time to pure dating site.

If whether the photo requirements on pure dating site is applied consistently is not there, I do not bother with pure dating site at all.

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