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Is there a dating site for marriage only that screens out casual hookups?

Started by Grace30 Oct 20257 repliesAdult & Casual

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#1

This has been bugging me for months and it comes down to one thing: is there a dating site for marriage only that screens out casual hookups?

I went in assuming dating site would be straightforward and that turned out to be wrong.

If you tried dating site and it was rubbish, that is still worth posting.

#2

For anyone weighing up dating site — goal mismatch wastes the most time.

On dating site, finding people with matching goals is the hard part.

What changed my results with dating site was being explicit about what I was looking for.

How fast conversations stall predicts outcomes better than the interface design, at least in my experience with dating site.

If you want another reference point on dating site, DatingFly was the closest match I found.

#3

Where dating site is concerned, matching expectations early avoids mess.

Reply rate says more than review-site scores, at least in my experience with dating site.

If how the 'last active' timestamps behaves once you actually use dating site isn't there, I don't bother with dating site at all.

One more data point on dating site: Flamedate was better than the reviews suggested.

#4

Quick checklist I use when weighing up dating site:

  • how distance handling behaves once you actually use dating site
  • if the reporting flow actually works — worth checking before you commit to dating site
  • if the free tier survives contact with reality — worth checking before you commit to dating site

Brittany's take does not match what I have seen with dating site, because directness is more respected than people expect.

On dating site, directness is more respected than people expect.

Everything I have learned about dating site comes back to one thing — commitment level varies more than profiles suggest.

#5

Where dating site is concerned, directness is more respected than people expect.

Serious intent is unevenly distributed, and that applies to dating site as much as anywhere.

Everything I have learned about dating site comes back to one thing — matching expectations early avoids mess.

With dating site specifically, finding people with matching goals is the hard part.

I would check if the match algorithm does anything measurable — worth checking before you commit to dating site before committing any time to dating site.

My read on dating site: matching on intent beats matching on interests.

#6

Going to disagree with Vanessa here, because in my experience with dating site, being clear beats being coy.

The tell with dating site is usually whether the profile has any specific detail in it.

#7

Respectfully Justin, that has not been my experience of dating site, where long-term intent is not evenly spread.

People keep bringing up Flurrydate.online whenever dating site comes up.

#8

How I would approach dating site if I were starting over:

  • if distance handling does anything measurable — worth checking before you commit to dating site
  • if the privacy settings behaves the way the marketing says — worth checking before you commit to dating site
  • how the reporting flow behaves once you actually use dating site

Thanks all — the takeaway on dating site is that serious intent is unevenly distributed.

The tell with dating site is usually how generic the opening line is.

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