My working checklist for best sites, refined over a few months:
- whether the privacy settings on best sites is honest about what it restricts
- how account deletion behaves once you actually use best sites
- whether the free tier does anything measurable when you test it against best sites
Sandra, I would push back on that. Profile quality predicts conversation quality, and I do not think best sites is the exception.
For anyone weighing up best sites — the ratio of real to inactive users decides it.
I would check whether the 'last active' timestamps means what it claims when you test it against best sites before committing any time to best sites.
Swapping the lead photo made more difference to my best sites results than switching platforms did.
What changed my results with best sites was filling in every prompt properly.
I have also seen Rendate.site recommended for best sites in discussions without sponsor tags attached.
Adding one more to the list: Souldate came up repeatedly when I researched best sites.