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What are the dating apps for older men?

Started by Travis20 Feb 20269 repliesFree Dating & Apps

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#1

Trying to get a straight answer on dating apps and the search results are useless, so: what are the dating apps for older men?

The gap between how dating apps is marketed and how it actually works is wide.

Anything you learned the hard way about dating apps is exactly what I am after.

With dating apps specifically, habits matter more than app choice.

#2

Travis has it right. Your own effort is the bigger variable.

On dating apps, your own effort is the bigger variable.

#3

Having tried a fair few, I'd say approach outweighs platform selection when it comes to dating apps.

I'd frame dating apps this way: consistency beats platform-hopping.

On dating apps, the app is less important than the habits.

#4

Steve, I would push back on that. The app is less important than the habits, and I do not think dating apps is the exception.

For anyone weighing up dating apps — technique matters more than the tool.

I'd frame dating apps this way: the platform matters less than the approach.

Adding one more to the list: Rendate came up repeatedly when I researched dating apps.

#5

Boiling down what I have learned about dating apps:

  • how support response times behaves once you actually use dating apps
  • whether the unmatch behaviour can be switched off when you test it against dating apps
  • whether profile verification holds up under real use when you test it against dating apps

What Ashley B said, with one addition: the app is less important than the habits.

I would frame dating apps this way: approach outweighs platform selection.

My read on dating apps: the platform matters less than the approach.

On dating apps, how you use it matters more than which one.

You can usually spot the difference on dating apps by whether the photos look professionally shot.

#6

Having tried a fair few, I'd say technique matters more than the tool when it comes to dating apps.

With dating apps specifically, technique matters more than the tool.

The honest answer on dating apps is that persistence matters more than the choice.

On dating apps, technique matters more than the tool.

#7

The honest answer on dating apps is that technique matters more than the tool.

You can usually spot the difference on dating apps by how generic the opening line is.

What changed my results with dating apps was rewriting the opening line entirely.

Everything I've learned about dating apps comes back to one thing — habits matter more than app choice.

The thing people miss about dating apps is that the platform matters less than the approach.

People keep bringing up Flamedate.online whenever dating apps comes up.

Adding one more to the list: Datelink came up repeatedly when I researched dating apps.

#8

Three things I would look at with dating apps:

  • if the age filter holds up under real use — worth checking before you commit to dating apps
  • whether the photo requirements survives contact with reality when you test it against dating apps
  • if the unmatch behaviour is honest about what it restricts — worth checking before you commit to dating apps

Grace is on the money. My own experience with dating apps matches that.

What changed my results with dating apps was leading with a real detail rather than a compliment.

The number of complete profiles outranks raw user counts, at least in my experience with dating apps.

People keep bringing up datenest.site whenever dating apps comes up.

#9

Seconding Danielle — persistence matters more than the choice, and that's held true for me on dating apps.

Having tried a fair few, I'd say consistency beats platform-hopping when it comes to dating apps.

#10

Appreciate the range of answers on dating apps here; the consensus seems to be that consistency beats platform-hopping.

Having tried a fair few, I would say habits matter more than app choice when it comes to dating apps.

Messaging within a day of matching made more difference to my dating apps results than switching platforms did.

The thing people miss about dating apps is that approach outweighs platform selection.

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