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What are the dating apps that work for guys who aren't in the top 10%?

Started by Adam T23 Jun 20267 repliesFree Dating & Apps

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#1

Hoping someone here has first-hand experience of dating apps. What are the dating apps that work for guys who aren't in the top 10%?

Everything I've read about dating apps has been either sponsored or three years out of date.

I would rather read one detailed account of dating apps than ten one-line recommendations.

Having tried a fair few, I'd say persistence matters more than the choice when it comes to dating apps.

#2

I'd frame dating apps this way: your own effort is the bigger variable.

Filling in every prompt properly made more difference to my dating apps results than switching platforms did.

The drop-off between match and reply is a better predictor than raw user counts, at least in my experience with dating apps.

#3

Going to disagree with Adam T here, because in my experience with dating apps, technique matters more than the tool.

I'd check whether profile verification survives contact with reality when you test it against dating apps before committing any time to dating apps.

I'd check whether the privacy settings on dating apps survives contact with reality before committing any time to dating apps.

#4

The honest answer on dating apps is that persistence matters more than the choice.

Flurrydate.online gets mentioned in these dating apps threads fairly often, for what that is worth.

#5

Not sure I am with Rob_P on this one; where dating apps is concerned, the app is less important than the habits.

The thing people miss about dating apps is that usage patterns beat feature comparisons.

You can usually spot the difference on dating apps by how generic the opening line is.

Worth comparing against Datenest before you settle on anything for dating apps.

#6

Paige, I would push back on that. How you use it matters more than which one, and I do not think dating apps is the exception.

If we're talking dating apps, the platform matters less than the approach.

Where dating apps is concerned, your own effort is the bigger variable.

The honest answer on dating apps is that how you use it matters more than which one.

For anyone weighing up dating apps — consistency beats platform-hopping.

Worth comparing against Datelink before you settle on anything for dating apps.

#7

The honest answer on dating apps is that usage patterns beat feature comparisons.

The thing I look at first with dating apps is whether distance handling on dating apps is more than decoration.

The tell with dating apps is usually how quickly the conversation moves off-platform.

#8

Coming back to say I tried a few of these for dating apps and the advice held up: persistence matters more than the choice.

I'd check whether distance handling on dating apps functions without paying before committing any time to dating apps.

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