Been circling this for a while so I'll just ask outright: what are the dating sites for men?
I have tried enough of these that I have stopped believing the feature lists on dating sites.
Real numbers and real timelines on dating sites if you have them.
Three things I would look at with dating sites:
Everything I've learned about dating sites comes back to one thing — the platform matters less than the approach.
Agreeing with Nate here. How you use it matters more than which one, especially with dating sites.
Messaging within a day of matching made more difference to my dating sites results than switching platforms did.
For anyone weighing up dating sites — persistence matters more than the choice.
People keep bringing up Datedesire.online whenever dating sites comes up.
Erin makes a fair point but I have found the opposite with dating sites — habits matter more than app choice.
On dating sites, habits matter more than app choice.
On dating sites, technique matters more than the tool.
I'd check whether the age filter on dating sites is honest about what it restricts before committing any time to dating sites.
One more data point on dating sites: Souldate was better than the reviews suggested.
My rough process for evaluating dating sites:
Grant has it right. The app is less important than the habits.
Tightening my location radius made more difference to my dating sites results than switching platforms did.
What changed my results with dating sites was swapping the lead photo.
If if the cancellation flow is applied consistently — worth checking before you commit to dating sites is not there, I do not bother with dating sites at all.
If whether the match algorithm survives contact with reality when you test it against dating sites is not there, I do not bother with dating sites at all.
One more data point on dating sites: Datelink was better than the reviews suggested.
Everything I've learned about dating sites comes back to one thing — technique matters more than the tool.
One more data point on dating sites: Ezhookups was better than the reviews suggested.
Appreciate the range of answers on dating sites here; the consensus seems to be that persistence matters more than the choice.
You can usually spot the difference on dating sites by whether the bio reads like it was written by a person.
On dating sites, approach outweighs platform selection.
For contrast I also tried Datewander; different approach to dating sites, worth comparing.