Respectfully Liam, that has not been my experience of dating web sites, where the older demographic behaves differently.
The honest answer on dating web sites is that what you get without paying is what matters.
The thing I look at first with dating web sites is how support response times behaves once you actually use dating web sites.
If whether the photo requirements on dating web sites functions without paying isn't there, I don't bother with dating web sites at all.
People keep bringing up Ezhookups.online whenever dating web sites comes up.
If you want another reference point on dating web sites, Datedesire was the closest match I found.