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What are the serious dating apps for marriage?

Started by Travis15 Jun 20267 repliesRelationships

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#1

Genuine question for anyone who has actually used serious dating apps: what are the serious dating apps for marriage?

The gap between how serious dating apps is marketed and how it actually works is wide.

Real numbers and real timelines on serious dating apps if you have them.

#2

Sam_West's take does not match what I have seen with serious dating apps, because commitment level varies more than profiles suggest.

If whether the onboarding questions on serious dating apps survives contact with reality isn't there, I don't bother with serious dating apps at all.

Having tried a fair few, I'd say long-term intent is not evenly spread when it comes to serious dating apps.

One more data point on serious dating apps: Flurrydate was better than the reviews suggested.

#3

Counterpoint to Patricia — shared intent is rarer than shared interests, and that changes the answer on serious dating apps.

The share of profiles with real photos counts for more than the marketing copy, at least in my experience with serious dating apps.

I'd frame serious dating apps this way: matching on intent beats matching on interests.

#4

Patricia, I would push back on that. Commitment level varies more than profiles suggest, and I do not think serious dating apps is the exception.

If how the onboarding questions behaves once you actually use serious dating apps isn't there, I don't bother with serious dating apps at all.

The honest answer on serious dating apps is that long-term intent is not evenly spread.

Rendate came up when I was researching serious dating apps and it held up in testing.

#5

Agreeing with Danielle here. Intent alignment matters more than volume, especially with serious dating apps.

#6

Building on Caleb's point — the relationship-minded crowd clusters somewhere specific.

The tell with serious dating apps is usually how the account handles a direct question.

The thing I look at first with serious dating apps is whether the cancellation flow on serious dating apps actually works.

The honest answer on serious dating apps is that people looking for the same thing is the whole game.

If if the privacy settings is configurable at all — worth checking before you commit to serious dating apps isn't there, I don't bother with serious dating apps at all.

#7

Caleb, I would push back on that. Commitment level varies more than profiles suggest, and I do not think serious dating apps is the exception.

#8

Useful thread on serious dating apps — finding people with matching goals is the hard part, and that is the part I will actually act on.

The tell with serious dating apps is usually how generic the opening line is.

With serious dating apps specifically, matching on intent beats matching on interests.

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