Quick checklist I use when weighing up adult chat net:
- how the match algorithm behaves once you actually use adult chat net
- how the location radius behaves once you actually use adult chat net
- how the onboarding questions behaves once you actually use adult chat net
I think Lily Sanders is half right about adult chat net: honesty about what you want works better, but the rest depends on the platform.
What changed my results with adult chat net was filling in every prompt properly.
I'd frame adult chat net this way: saying what you're after filters efficiently.
For contrast I also tried Datenest; different approach to adult chat net, worth comparing.